Katie & Jay
Most/all of you reading this already know our story, but here is a short version again if you really want to know.
We met all the way back in September 2003 when we both enrolled at the University of Portsmouth for a degree in Computer Science. Jay only picked Pompey because he liked the colour of the prospectus and Katie because she didn't want to be too far from family cooked dinners (Simon Bax never did fully forgive Katie for going to Uni in blue town).
Katie, being the good student, arrived early for a seminar one day and sat down waiting patiently when Jay in his baggy jeans came in and chose the empty seat next to the "pretty girl". But it was not the start of the romance, both of us were in other relationships and besides-Katie couldn't always understand him with the strong Brummie accent.
Through that year, we always sat in lectures together along with our other life long friends. In 2004, Katie abandoned the boys and took part in Forensic Biology degree instead, but stayed in touch via MSN messenger, with lots of late night chats.
Over nearly a decade (oh my god!), nights out saw more and more outrageous flirting, and years later, we actually gave in and began our relationship in 2012.
Over our near 15 years together we've done a lot and been to many places-but still have a lot on our bucket lists. We've brought our lovely house, adopted our fluff ball, covered US states among other summer holiday trips, and helped each other through the trials and tribulations of adult life.
For my 40th birthday, Jay gifted me a trip to Iceland to see the sight I've dreamt of for decades-The Northern Lights ('causes I'm a geek), and it was here, under this natural phenomenon that Jay decided to ask a question he'd spent years saying he wouldn't, and asked me to marry him. Being pitch black in the middle of an Icelandic national park, I couldn't see that he actually had a ring and thought he was joking, but once over the shock- I accepted and can't believe I finally get to marry my best friend.
Thank you to each and every one of you who have come with us on our journey, and for joining us on this day.
We hope you have the party you know a Wellax night out to be. Eat, drink lots and sing and dance the night away!
We met all the way back in September 2003 when we both enrolled at the University of Portsmouth for a degree in Computer Science. Jay only picked Pompey because he liked the colour of the prospectus and Katie because she didn't want to be too far from family cooked dinners (Simon Bax never did fully forgive Katie for going to Uni in blue town).
Katie, being the good student, arrived early for a seminar one day and sat down waiting patiently when Jay in his baggy jeans came in and chose the empty seat next to the "pretty girl". But it was not the start of the romance, both of us were in other relationships and besides-Katie couldn't always understand him with the strong Brummie accent.
Through that year, we always sat in lectures together along with our other life long friends. In 2004, Katie abandoned the boys and took part in Forensic Biology degree instead, but stayed in touch via MSN messenger, with lots of late night chats.
Over nearly a decade (oh my god!), nights out saw more and more outrageous flirting, and years later, we actually gave in and began our relationship in 2012.
Over our near 15 years together we've done a lot and been to many places-but still have a lot on our bucket lists. We've brought our lovely house, adopted our fluff ball, covered US states among other summer holiday trips, and helped each other through the trials and tribulations of adult life.
For my 40th birthday, Jay gifted me a trip to Iceland to see the sight I've dreamt of for decades-The Northern Lights ('causes I'm a geek), and it was here, under this natural phenomenon that Jay decided to ask a question he'd spent years saying he wouldn't, and asked me to marry him. Being pitch black in the middle of an Icelandic national park, I couldn't see that he actually had a ring and thought he was joking, but once over the shock- I accepted and can't believe I finally get to marry my best friend.
Thank you to each and every one of you who have come with us on our journey, and for joining us on this day.
We hope you have the party you know a Wellax night out to be. Eat, drink lots and sing and dance the night away!
Meet the Wedding Party
Whos who?
Bridal Party:
Maid of Honour, Bronia. Friends since secondary school and partner in adventures. Many bucket list items completed together, many more to do.
Matron of Honor, Louise. Lou and I went to school together, but became much closer in college and the (many) years after. Queen of karaoke hostesses.
Bridesmaid, Aimee. Aimee has been in my life since we were in infant school. One of the most friendly people you'll meet-but careful cause you'll also never be able to shake her once you've found common ground.
Grooms Party:
Best Man, Mat. Jays closest friend since Uni and housemate as a young professional. Full of stories, and likely open to bribes.
Groomsmen, Chris and Denyer. Denyer was told to "bring chips" one day and has been a constant in my life since. Also came to live with us "for a few weeks" while he got settled in the city, and stayed for 8 years. Chris is the one we can both always rely on. He will always get things sorted, and always make sure everyone is OK and looked after- whether it's a chat or a room to stay. He is also always the one to cook an awesome egg and/or bacon sandwich on a Friends Trip.
Usher, Seb. Seb and I lived off campus in the same halls and have been close ever since. Seb can always be relied on for a laugh, and no one can troll Jay like Seb can.
Maid of Honour, Bronia. Friends since secondary school and partner in adventures. Many bucket list items completed together, many more to do.
Matron of Honor, Louise. Lou and I went to school together, but became much closer in college and the (many) years after. Queen of karaoke hostesses.
Bridesmaid, Aimee. Aimee has been in my life since we were in infant school. One of the most friendly people you'll meet-but careful cause you'll also never be able to shake her once you've found common ground.
Grooms Party:
Best Man, Mat. Jays closest friend since Uni and housemate as a young professional. Full of stories, and likely open to bribes.
Groomsmen, Chris and Denyer. Denyer was told to "bring chips" one day and has been a constant in my life since. Also came to live with us "for a few weeks" while he got settled in the city, and stayed for 8 years. Chris is the one we can both always rely on. He will always get things sorted, and always make sure everyone is OK and looked after- whether it's a chat or a room to stay. He is also always the one to cook an awesome egg and/or bacon sandwich on a Friends Trip.
Usher, Seb. Seb and I lived off campus in the same halls and have been close ever since. Seb can always be relied on for a laugh, and no one can troll Jay like Seb can.
Welcome to our wedding website
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The Venue
The Clock Barn
Please join us at The Clock Barn, Tufton Warren Whitchurch, Hampshire, RG28 7RB.
The Clock Barn was originally a large-aisled threshing barn, built in the 1800s. The unique clock which stands at the entrance to the venue, was constructed by a previous owner in honour of Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation in 1953.
Hosting weddings since 2004, when we walked in we were blown away with the aesthetic, and we hope you will be too.
https://clockbarn.co.uk/
The Clock Barn was originally a large-aisled threshing barn, built in the 1800s. The unique clock which stands at the entrance to the venue, was constructed by a previous owner in honour of Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation in 1953.
Hosting weddings since 2004, when we walked in we were blown away with the aesthetic, and we hope you will be too.
https://clockbarn.co.uk/
Wedding ceremony
When
29th October 2027, 14:30 - 23:30
Where
The Clock Barn, Tufton Warren, Whitchurch, RG28 7RB, United Kingdom
Venue Information
The venue is on the site of a old working farm, and therefore away from the village. Please book a taxi before it is needed.
If you’re using a sat nav, the postcode RG28 7RB will bring you directly to Clock Barn. We would not recommend solely using ‘Clock Barn’ in your search for directions. Once you get to the private road, follow it for about 1.75 miles until you reach Tufton Warren Farm and follow signs to the parking area.
If using What3Words please use ///number.wager.alien
Dress Code
It's a wedding- please come dressed in your best and photo ready!
We are yet to finalise our themes/colours, so please check here closer to the date for any updates and requests.
Policy on Children
We’re excited to celebrate our special day with all of our loved ones! To ensure everyone can relax and enjoy the festivities, we kindly request that our wedding be an adults-only affair.
We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to share this joyous occasion with you!
Itinerary for the Day
2.00 pm- Guests Arrive.
2.25pm- Please take your seats.
2.30pm- Ceremony Begins.
3.00pm- Drinks reception
-Please enjoy the music, games and Canapés.
-Formal group photos to be taken during this time
4.45pm- Please take your seats for dinner
5.00pm- Speeches
5.45pm- Dinner is Served
7.30pm-Lets get the party goin!
11.45pm- Last Orders at the bar
Midnight- Thats a wrap.
-Please order taxis in advance to pick you up as the site will close down at this time.
2.25pm- Please take your seats.
2.30pm- Ceremony Begins.
3.00pm- Drinks reception
-Please enjoy the music, games and Canapés.
-Formal group photos to be taken during this time
4.45pm- Please take your seats for dinner
5.00pm- Speeches
5.45pm- Dinner is Served
7.30pm-Lets get the party goin!
11.45pm- Last Orders at the bar
Midnight- Thats a wrap.
-Please order taxis in advance to pick you up as the site will close down at this time.
Evening Celebration
When
29th October 2027, 20:00 - 23:30
Where
The Clock Barn, , Tufton Warren, Whitchurch, RG28 7RB, United Kingdom
Dress Code
It's a wedding- please come dressed in your best and photo ready!
We are yet to finalise our themes/colours, so please check here closer to the date for any updates and requests.
We are yet to finalise our themes/colours, so please check here closer to the date for any updates and requests.
Plus Ones
We truly wish we could invite everyone, but due to limitations, we’re only able to welcome the guests named on the invitation. We’re so grateful for your understanding.
Gifts
We’re fortunate to already have a home full of everything we need. Instead of traditional gifts, we’ve created a honeymoon fund for those who’d like to help us make some unforgettable memories.
(Details to be added)
(Details to be added)
Where to Stay
Hopefully you can find some accommodation nearby that will allow you to take full advantage of the day with us.
This is not an exhaustive list by any means, but just a few of the available places fairly close by for a variety of budgets.
White Hart Hotel, Newbury St, Whitchurch RG28 7DN (pub with rooms, approximately 3 min drive)
The Watership Down Inn, 11 Priory Ln, Whitchurch RG28 7NJ (approximately 6 minute drive)
Travelodge Barton Stacy A303, Winchester SO21 3NF (approximately 7 min drive)
Norton Park Hotel, Norton Park, Sutton Scotney, Winchester SO21 3NB (approximately 10 minute drive)
This is not an exhaustive list by any means, but just a few of the available places fairly close by for a variety of budgets.
White Hart Hotel, Newbury St, Whitchurch RG28 7DN (pub with rooms, approximately 3 min drive)
The Watership Down Inn, 11 Priory Ln, Whitchurch RG28 7NJ (approximately 6 minute drive)
Travelodge Barton Stacy A303, Winchester SO21 3NF (approximately 7 min drive)
Norton Park Hotel, Norton Park, Sutton Scotney, Winchester SO21 3NB (approximately 10 minute drive)
Local Taxis
Please organise a taxi before the event.
Keiths Private Heir Taxis are a recommended service for the Clock Barn. 07788665846.
For Whitchurch
J-Cars Private Hire
07876 254428
For Andover
Keiths Private Heir Taxis are a recommended service for the Clock Barn. 07788665846.
For Whitchurch
J-Cars Private Hire
07876 254428
For Andover
1-2 Call Cabs
01264 312602
01264 312602
ABC Taxis
01256 465000
01256 465000
Contact Us
If you have any questions about the arrangements for our wedding or want to let us know something specific please send us a message.